In our latest Day in the Life feature, we sit down with Stephen, one of Edmen’s Youth Support Workers, to discuss what his job is really like. Hear why he chose a career supporting young people and learn about his recent experience helping a young person reunite with their family.
I'm Steven. I’m currently doing my master’s in social work. This coming month should mark my one year with Edmen, it has been an excellent journey working with the young people so far. I’ve always enjoyed working and mentoring young people and it’s fulfilling to see them happy.
I'm the firstborn in my family, so growing up I took care of my younger siblings. I think all young people deserve a safe space, which is even more important when things are not going well. Having someone to talk to when things are not okay is also just as important.
I saw the job advertisement for the Youth Support Worker role on Seek. I thought it looked like a good fit in terms of the job description and duties, so I applied and ended up getting the role.
I started working with the young person four days after they joined care, so I had been working with him for a whole year before he was reunified with family. When he first arrived at the house there was quite a bit of trouble because of where he'd come from, obviously trauma and everything had played a part in that. But we had a very supportive team. We worked closely together with the young person until he was in a position where he could be reunified with family. We saw a tremendous improvement from his end, and I feel that we all did a great job at building a foundation for the young person. I accompanied this young person to the Northern Territory, along with a social worker and was happy to see them reunite with their aunty.

I would say one of my greatest achievements is this recent reunification. It really opened my eyes. Before working with Edmen, I thought youth work was just working with young people and making sure that they’re okay, but reunification is the main goal. Seeing the young people rejoining families is really rewarding.
I get to be a young person myself when working with young people. I try to understand them from their point of view, in a non-judgemental way. There are times in the job where you’ll ask, ‘why is this young person behaving in this way?’ but that may be because you haven’t taken the time to understand what’s driving their behaviour. I try to put myself in their shoes to see where they’re coming from, family dynamics obviously also play a part here. Taking on a trauma informed approach also gives me a different perspective when dealing with a young person and I can better relate to them.
The most challenging part of being a youth worker would be putting in the hours and seeing no change at times. You get disappointed to be honest. When you’re working with a young person and you’re really trying to, you know, model their lives and not seeing much change – that can get frustrating.
You need to be a person who loves working with young people. Understanding trauma and taking on a trauma informed approach too is important, a holistic centred approach. You must be culturally responsive as well. So it entails a lot, but if you have these interests and skills then my advice would be to go for it – get a job and make their lives better.
The whole Edmen team is supportive. When I first started working, I was allocated to a few different houses, and I really just wanted to settle in one particular house. Edmen was quite supportive of this. I've worked in the same house since last year. I don't move around to other houses as much, and I'm really happy where I am in now.
This has also helped me establish routines with the young people I support and build positive relationships with them. This can be more challenging when they are used to seeing lots of different faces all the time. At times it can be hard to tell whether a young person is okay of not, so I think having a consistent team helps with this.