In our latest instalment of Day in the Life, we sat down with Edmen Youth Worker, Kiley, to hear about her journey from corporate life to making a difference in the lives of young people. With just a few months in the role, Kiley shares what inspired her career change, the rewarding moments that make the hard work worthwhile, and her advice for anyone considering youth work.
My name’s Kiley, and I’ve been a Residential Youth Worker at Edmen for about three months now. I’m also a mum, so I’ve got young children of my own.
I spent seven years working in an office job, but it just wasn’t fulfilling. I wanted to work with people, and youth work seemed like a really rewarding path. Shifting from a corporate role to a caring one was a big change—especially as I mostly worked from home—but I’m a people person, and working from home became quite isolating. I needed something more meaningful than staring at spreadsheets and dealing with finance arrears. That kind of work just wasn’t me!
It’s definitely hard work compared to sitting at home all day—no sugar-coating that—but it’s also so enjoyable. There are so many rewarding aspects, like building relationships with the children and doing fun activities with them. It’s a complete 180 from what I was doing before, in the best way.
The ages range from 3 to 16, so it’s a pretty wide spectrum!
There are so many moments that make it worthwhile. One of my favourites is seeing the children get excited when they see me on shift. Knowing they’re happy to see me always brightens my day—it makes me feel like I’m making a positive impact.
Another highlight is celebrating their achievements. For example, one of the young people I support recently got a job, and he’s so proud of himself. Seeing his excitement made me feel like I’d won alongside him. Those little victories mean a lot.
Sometimes the children’s behaviours, which are often linked to their trauma, can be tough to navigate. But for me, the hardest part is wanting to fix everything for them and knowing that I can’t. At the end of the day, they need to want better outcomes for themselves—it has to come from them.
Building connections is at the heart of what we do, and that can take so many forms. When I arrive for a shift, I check in with the young person and see what their plans are for the day.
A typical day can vary a lot depending on whether it’s a school day or the weekend. On weekends, we might head to Wet’n’Wild, the cinema, or an indoor trampoline centre. Other times, we’ll bake, watch films, or go shopping together. It’s all about creating fun memories and fostering a connection.
I’d say to come into this role with an open heart and a genuine desire to help. Working as a youth worker can be different from what you might expect, so it’s important to stay flexible.
The biggest thing is to show compassion and build relationships. Acknowledge the trauma these young people have been through and approach them with thoughtfulness and understanding.
It’s been phenomenal. Edmen’s support has been next-level. I had an incident at work once, and the team went above and beyond to make sure I was okay. My support coordinator kept checking in with me—I think they apologised for calling so much! But honestly, it showed me how much they care, and that made all the difference.